The concept I call ‘the rule of three’ was inspired by some of my military leaders of the past. A few of the E-8’s (aka Master Sergeants) have two or three rules listed on plaques on their desks. One of my older, Master Sergeant (SGM) leaders has two specific rules. SGM Cullen’s two rules are these:
1. Mission is priority
2. Never assume anything.
Another great plaque I’ve seen on military leader’s desks said “Your poor planning does not constitute an emergency on my part”. Last but not least, one had a grenade on it with a number tag on the pin you pull to activate the grenade. It reads, “The complaints department takes a number. This is why today in my business one of our core values is humor. If you can’t make fun of yourself, who can?
I have read many leadership and self-help books over the years and it seems like each one touts their simple process or system. So here are SGT Peterson’s three rules to live by.
#1 – Control Your Attitude
Regardless of how bad today or the long term outlook is, you can always control your attitude. You can put a smile on your face and attack the day with optimism. This is something you always have the choice to do. You can inspire others to have a better day just by the way you conduct yourself.
For instance, an American’s bad day might be you wake up late, miss breakfast, and don’t even have time to shower before you rush off to work. You then start your day with your boss waiting for you in his office with a few things to speak with you about. He goes on to tell you your salary will be cut by 15% because of the financial crisis. Then you go to lunch and reach for your debit card only to find that you forgot your wallet at home. Lastly, on the way home from work you run out of gas.
However a GOOD day in Africa might start off with a cup rice and beans (if you are able to get some from the aid worker that gets robbed half of the time by the local militia.) This is the same Militia that rapes and pillages towns and enslaves young boys in their militia for life. It’s a good day if they don’t get you or a lion, crocodile, or hyena doesn’t eat you alive.
Interestingly enough people in these smaller countries are usually happier than people in larger, more modern society. In Africa they are just happy to live, and they do it using these three simple principles. They may not want too, but they do it because they have to. It’s too bad that so many people in America are accustomed to complaining about things while being unhappy. They could be making things happen with a smile on their face like the less fortunate third world countries around the world.
#2 – Control What You Are Doing Right Now!
That means you are the master of your body and universe. If you want to stop drinking or lose weight you will have to make a decision to change your behavior, and it must start today or the procrastinating and self-depreci
ating will never end. Stop making excuses, and demand results by making it happen NOW!

#3 – Make A Basic Plan For The Future
The trick with this one is not to get lost in the weeds with the details. In regards to this topic less is more. People have a hard time seeing past 90 days, so spend 80% of the time planning on the next quarter, and the rest of your 20% on 1, 3, 10 and 50 year goals. The point is that if you spend all of your time analyzing your future, you will never get there. You can’t think your way to your future, you have to take action today. That means knock out your quarterly goals and stop making excuses.
In all, I believe in using as little time and resources as possible to get my mission done, whatever that is. So if you follow these three rules, you will find yourself getting more done with less time, and certainly less emotional effort.
And remember, the rest of the shit just happens to you, so go back to #1 and repeat.
For some more motivation check out this link =) Warning, you must love the US military to watch this video.







